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Do you ever think…
I’m gonna be alone forever…”
Lying in bed alone at night you feel that sense of loneliness that you don’t always notice during the day. You thought that you’d be married and starting a family by this time in your life, or at least engaged.
“What if I meet someone and I feel like I’m losing me?!”
You’ve been single for a while now and feel a sense of being set in your own ways. You’re wondering if you’d be willing to share the space in your closet for their clothes or give up a corner in the bathroom linen closet. You’re worried that you won’t get to attend your monthly Friday friends’ night out or spend Sunday evenings at your favorite coffee shop.
“Are we really ready?”
You’ve been dating for some time now, the “big question” has been asked and a date has been set for the “big day”. Now you’re starting to wonder, “Are we really ready?” You’ve had some discussions about your future but one or both of you change the subject when it comes to discussing finances, family obligations, friends, and careers for after you’re married.
“This isn’t how I thought it was going to be…”
You spent ten months planning your special day selecting the flowers, the invitations, the DJ, table decorations and cake, but now that the wedding is over and you’ve had a year together, you’re questioning “Is this it? Will I have to put the toilet seat down every time I use the restroom?” Or “when do I get to choose what movie we’re gonna see?”
“I’ve got it good, what am I complaining about?”
You’ve got the car, the house, the spouse, the children, but something just doesn’t feel right. Maybe you don’t feel safe sharing this uncertainty with your friends or family. They would think you’re crazy for complaining.
Do any of these sound familiar?
Then Relationship Counseling is for you!
My name is Monica Mora-Handlos and I am the owner of Harmonious Happenings. I offer relationship counseling to help people find their more happily ever after.
Sometimes you need a neutral person to listen to your problems, worries, or doubts. You need someone to help you focus on the underlying problem (not just the surface level complaints) of what’s going on in your life and relationships. I would like to be that person for you. As you sit down to talk with me, I can help you identify what is bothering you and figure out what you want to do about that problem. I believe this process will help you find clarity in your life and lead you closer towards your personal happily ever after.